Exactly a year ago today, I spent my first day in Quesnel. Fondly called Q-town by its inhabitants, this strange little place has become quite dear to me.There is so much to say about this strange country, so many adventures to talk about. Perhaps the most entertaining aspects of this journey so far has been accents, cultural differences and various misconceptions about both South Africa and Canada.
During one of my first weeks in Quesnel, I spent a good amount of time with one of the girls I met at church. One night, as we sat talking about all sorts of things, she told me a rather sad story about some one she knew. I listened, interjecting, as any good South African would, at polite intervals with "shame". I was slightly confused by her look of shock each time I did, but I decided that I didn't know her well enough to understand her facial expressions. It was only a few months later that she told me that, because of my accent and the fact that Canadians do not use the word "shame" as a sympathetic sentiment, she thought I had been swearing.
We've shocked many people by informing them that South Africa does, in fact, have a winter. We, in turn, were pleasantly surprised by Summers that reach the 30s. Many of you know Tumi, my beautiful black sort of sister. I told a few girls at dancing that every first born in SA is born black. And they believed me.
One of many conversations with a random stranger went something like this...
"You have a British accent! Where is it from?"
"South Africa."
"Oh! I have a friend in South Africa!"
"Really. Where in South Africa?"
"Ghana."
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The Canadian phrase "I don't care" is the equivalent of the South African "I don't mind". For quite a while I thought people were very apathetic and rude. Saying you will do something "just now" means right now, not in a few minutes, hours or days.
Robots are called traffic lights,crumpets are called pancakes and pancakes, crepes. The milk is gay, the crackers are high and the shower gel is quite a chop.
Homesickness and loneliness pestered me rather consistently in the beginning but I am now quite enjoying this new life. Even though all my plans of studying, working and getting married have all gone out the window, I'm finally able to look at my confusing little life not as a mess but as a grand adventure that is constantly changing. Happy one-year-in-a-foreign-country to me!
"I don' like that guy. He's a real douche.."-Nacho Libre |
Yep. |
When they said BC had a drug problem, they weren't joking... |
Nice! I hope we've made your life interesting...
ReplyDeleteSometimes people will also refer to pancakes as hotcakes, my mom occasionally referred to them as hoecakes (I think they may be a little different though), might just be redneck Saskatchewan talk I don't know, lol. As for "I don't care" as a term also "whatever", which is kinda the same and can be taken wrong also. Oh and we swim in bathing suits here. I love the differences in cultures and its also fun to hear about differences here. When I was a kid I used to wonder why everyone else got to have an accent but us, lol. Happy 1st anniversary Helen and glad to hear you are getting used to us Canadians eh, and settling in.
ReplyDeleteOk, Jesus knew that I needed to catch up on your blog tonight-so I could LAUGH!!! :) LOL, cracking up Helen. And the "I don't care" translating to "I don't mind"-this is an AHA moment for this foreign national! :) Even today I asked Nath if he "cared" about something and he said (as he most always does)-well, yes I CARE, but I don't MIND...
ReplyDeleteWe have never realized there is a difference in meaning.
And 1st borns are black in South Africa-SHHHHHH, you're not supposed to let the secret out!!!
Malema has plans to make this a money-making phenomena! :)
When I moved to SA one of my grade 2 kids saw a couple of pics I had from the States (both in black and white for some reason) and asked,
"Teachah? Is your world black and white?"
:)
So I just had to stop Nathan in the middle of "300" to read him this post! :) He said I could-haha -He was quite entertained as well :) And when I showed him the pic of "Stoned Wheat Thins" his response was, "Yesterday..."-is this also a South African thing? "Yes-te-day..."
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